But if the husband insits in keeping from with his wife; after the respite of four months, then the Islamic judge may put him in jail to force him to change his mind and intention. He has either to reconcile or give a divorce, and cannot live his wife unattended. Of course the judge will do his best to reconcile them, and bring the couple back to harmony, because our prophet (AS) has said: ``Of all things declared lawful, divorce is the most hateful one in the sight of Allah.''